Well, I really was despairing, after seeing several patio tiles badly stained by epoxy glue, and none of my above efforts being effective. Tomorrow, if no progress today, I was going to call my tiler and get him to replace them, at great expense.
Thought of a chemical treatment, but that would probably mark the tiles, and make it worse. My next step was the heat gun and scrubbing, as suggested by MS
Had a family b'day party last night, on the patio, with 8 kids, with 6 of them 5 and under, and the mess was horrific. So I borrowed son's water blaster to clean it up, and lo and behold, the expoy glue all lifted up too with a bit of sustained blasting


Joy of joys


The whole patio now looks like new, and even the marks from the rotary wire brush have disappeared