Thread: I'm throwing in the towel

I have a good tablesaw, a great SCMS, a big workshop and workbench and very little else. I can't spend the money on buying machined wood or getting wood machined as all of the wood I get is recycled and free - that's my budget.
I've made about 15 wokbenches and 125 chopping boards and I've had a gut full, I'm ready to put the whole lot on ebay and turn my back on it for good.

Oh PLeeeease! You are a right whinge, aren't you! A family man with three children, a job and a workshop ..... all of the wood I get is recycled and free .... There are many who would trade places with you in an instant!

Bloody Hell, you have all the tools you need. What you lack are the tools you want.

There are many ways to skin a cat. That is what woodworking is all about.

Handtools are cheap. A couple of planes and chisels - which you probably have. I bought my first power jointer about a month ago, and it still is to be set up and plugged in. I prefer dressing my timber by hand, which I have done for many years. The point is, the absence of some power apprentices does not have to reduce the pleasure of woodworking as a hobby. In fact, it can increase the satisfaction of creating things with your talent and technique.

Regards from Perth

Derek

I am inclined to agree with Derek.

Seems to me you've got plenty to be happy about and grateful for.

So, why not get your priorities right and focus on the positives in your life.

As others have suggested, if the hobby part of your life is annoying you at the moment, do something else for a while. The enjoyment will return.

Cheers,

Dan

A big workshop - you lucky barsteward.

If you are getting the blues - and aren't the media trying to give everyone a good dose of depression - just do what has already been suggested - clean & grease up you tools and declare a holiday until you find that you feel better.

Indeed, you may well find that in a few months there will be some bargains around that you can afford - keep an eye on Greys Online for bulk auctions as well as the sell & swap column here.

Take a break?

Yes!

Sell the lot?

NEVER!

I have had occassions over the years to put my chosen way of providing my income on hold. I never ever sold the tools of my trade because sooner or later, I wanted to do it again. My main tool is a 1968 job, and I still use it, and thank goodness I kept it, as it can never be replaced.

You like doing woodwork, but some other things are taking priority at the moment. That will soon pass my friend. I had babies, and then they became adults and gave me grand-babies, and they in turn are now growing too fast for me, and it all seems to have taken place in a very short time, to me at least.

Keep your equipment, and you will never regret it.

There'll be many here who will object to me saying this, but many forumites here have the opportunity to make woodworking a major part of their lives. Like you, I have toddlers, 2 & 3 and the next one baking. I'm studying engineering full time (ie 5 days a week), I work two days a week, and I reserve the weekends to spend with my wife and kids. That doesn't leave much time, or money for woodwork. So, I savour the time I get to spend in the workshop. I celebrate the stuff I get to buy (here's my latest purchase!) and when I make something everyone's happy.

So I have to be realistic. I pick a job off the list, I work out how to find the materials, spending as little money as possible, and I work out how to use the tools I have to do the jobs I don't have tools for.

My daughter ( 3yo) waited more than 6 months for her play kitchen - that's a lifetime for a three year old, and to me it felt like a lifetime of me putting up with "Is my kitchen finished yet?". Tomorrow we start the next job - a cubby house. After that, something else.

So pick your next project. Work out what you want to make, write a list of materials. Write a list of tools you need to acquire or substitute. Start at the beginning and just keep going until its finished. Sometimes you'll only get ten minutes at a time, sometimes you'll get a hour. That's all you do. Sometimes it'll be quick, mostly it'll take months to do something - isn't that a good lesson to teach your kids? If you want it now, you get second hand chinese crap, if you wait, you get a solid piece of work made by your Dad, an heirloom to pass on to your kids.

Don't cut yourself up. You just have to be a good Dad, everything else is a bonus.

Thanks for the words people, it seems many have been there before and know where I'm coming from and I will take the advice of just putting everything away for a while and cooling off.

The thing that so frustrates me at the moment is this last project, everything just fell into place - almost every thing.
I originally made a toddler bed out of recycled Blackbutt with the intention of making the loft bed over the top when the baby got old enough for the toddler bed and the toddler got old enough for a single.
The plan was to buy all the wood when we moved house and set up the machines and build it, the bill was coming to about $800 for the necessary Blackbutt so I went looking for alternatives. To my surprise I found enough 4x4 Blackbutt & 6x2 Blackbutt to make the bed and change enough for a few big projects, it was rough sawn material I supplied to my sister back in my Boral days for a pergola she never built and in 4 years of sitting around at her place it air dried now ready for the thicknesser.

When we made the decision to buy the machinery I cut it all to approximate length and now it's just sitting there.
I only have a short amount of time before the toddler gets too old for the bed I made originally and now it's sitting in storage - months of hard work using dangerous crap tools and it's not going to be used. Cuts me up to think about it, the wife don't care she's happy with the chinese crap their in now.

Anyways I better stop my whining and thank you all for you kind words, we have a daughter on the way now and I had designed and planned a cot, change table, dresser and cupboard for her all out of red ironbark I scored off a building site - hopefully I'll get that made before she's 32.
Carbatec must have increased their prices in the last few days, the thicknesser I was going to buy has increased $500, the 8" jointer $100 - this is definitely not the right time for me.

Originally Posted by missionaryman

I have a good tablesaw, a great SCMS, a big workshop and workbench

Poor Frippin Diddums! I have two lathes, a drill press and an scms. My workshop is a small (5 x 2.4m) area under the house. The floor is dirt and there's gaping holes in the outside wall.

You have a table saw and a big workshop, I'd do anything to get them. Consider yourself lucky.

On the flipside you kinda took the words right out of my mouth. Seems we're suffering from what I'm dubbing "Workshop Induced Depression" I'm sure Derek will concur that it's a serious condition..

missonaryman, when your precious little daughter arrives everything you have been worrying about will seem so insignificant, especially if she's your first.
We've only got 1 little girl (2.5yrs, & i was scared s**tless coming from an all boy family) and our biggest complaint is that we can't afford to raise another child. I know what it feels like to be held back or feel that way. Enjoy being a new parent. In saying that, I've been cleaning out my garage tonight cause I've got a new table saw & dusty coming in the morning (tax deductions hopefully) but I need to sell the 2nd/3rd love of my life, my pimped up Benz. (Oh yeah all about me). Hang in there, don't be worried about having a girl, you'll be fine, tomorrow you'll have more time.
Just realised the table saw will be running when the young blokes come to take my daughter out. (delete this if it makes the news).....addsome icons

Did I mention that I have my own home made CNC too?

it really isn't so bad is it now.

http://www.highlandwoodworking.com/w...hrisblack.html

Originally Posted by mic-d

http://www.highlandwoodworking.com/w...hrisblack.html

very good very relevant.

Originally Posted by missionaryman

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it really isn't so bad is it now.

No, it's not anymore because you've talked the problem over with sympathetic and empathic people, we've heard you, we've understood and we've shared with you.

So no, it's not so bad now and that's great to hear.

cheers
Wendy

I can't afford a table saw at the moment and am resigned to the fact that i will have to resort to 100% handtools for the time being. Check out Derek's website, there's some great how-to's for jigs and all things unpowered in there, particularly the stuff on preparing boards without thicknesser's and shooting boards. Although, i guess Derek couldn't keep it as simple as the tools themselves... he had to throw a spanner in the works with that 30" plane. http://www.inthewoodshop.com/

Either way, i see it as a good way to properly develop my skills until i can afford to be lazy with machinery

My advice: keep the tools and wait until the baby stops breast feeding, then send SWMBO to work full-time while you stay at home to look after the kids, making sure they have regular lengthy naps Although that may not necessarily help your cash flow...

Oh and if you do decide to have a spit and sell everything then be sure to tell me first!! ;-)

Good to meet you last Sunday MM hope all is going well