Thread: Headin of inna da neba neba!!

Shane that is some place to be.

Who's the young bloke (driving) that keeps popping up in the photos. Those kids are great photographers and lucky to have someone who thinks so much of them.

As for the s&^% been there and likwise it started a couple of years before the end. Its been nearly 10 years now with 4 girls at school at the time, the youngest now 17 and all working, i look back and realise it wasnt easy but how much better it is now than the last couple of years before the split.

As i said before keep your chin up, the good freinds are there for you and it gets easier with time. Money cant buy these things.

Kids like that and places with that sort of sunrise/set look like gods country. GOOD LUCK and GOOD HEALTH

Gidday David
Yeah its one hell of a place... and by gawd Im going back!!... just not sure when that will be but definantly within the next 6 months...

The young bloke driving?... well an old tired worn out unloved and tattered wreck went up there with the kids and somehow a younger more vibrant happy and loved fella drove them back ...thank god for that!! Man I was sick and tired of that old bastards whinin and moanin I can tell you! bloody silly old git!

Ive not yet given up on our relationship... damned too bloody right I havent!!... Im presently working through a book my younger sis gave me up there by that dipstick Dr Phil... you know that Texan idiot on Oprahs show? anyway Ive always considered him a total jerkoff but I tell you what mate the difference between his tv persona and his books is bloody amazing!... hell you dont even hear that maddening Texan accent!!

Its called "relationship rescue"... seriously Im not one to go in for these self help guru so called experts books... Ive read a couple over the years and mate to me theyre a bunch of complete crap... but this one? this one is in your face draws out YOUR problems and then tells you to forget what you think are the problems with your partner or what you blame them for cause you have a mass of work to do on you!...

Im about halfway through now... and Ive learnt more about me and my attitudes thoughts actions words than I ever thought possible... Ive learnt what a bastard I was how insensitive I was how uncaring I was... and that was just ME!!... and toward the one person in this world I loved and adored!! WHAT A DIPSTICK!!!... so Ive now stopped worrying about Jo and what I considered where her problems and the changes she should make and how shes to blame for this situation and Ive started working on sorting me out... learning about me aknowledging my faults and what Ive done and not done the choices Ive made that created this situation is more than enough to handle at the moment and as I go along Im starting to forgive myself for all that stuff... and you know something? arriving at her place after inviting myself to lunch with her Bethany and little Lukas with a new attitude and more in control of me than Ive been in a long while and the difference was increadible... forgiving myself has been liberating in a way because I no longer hold any emotional baggage or angst... forgiving her is even more liberating because I dont blame her anymore.

Im at peace with whats happened... because I cant change it... Im at peace with her choices because I cant change them... and as I go along Im becoming at peace with me because I am changing the things in me that NEED to be changed.

Great book!!!... seriously!!... and in our situation of nearing the end and in a hell of a mess in our relationship and needing help to sort it out but not being able to do so... ABSOLUTELY AND DEFINANTLY worth reading and having a go at.

I dont know if she will even read the copy I got and gave her today... I hope she does... but if not I cant force her thats a choice she makes and thats okay... if she does and over time can see me changing for the better perhaps theres still a chance for us and a new begining... who knows but the way its been we needed some help and werent getting it anywhere so the only place we were looking at ending up was the divorce courts and all that that involves... so this is something that could just help so worth the price of a book eh!

Cheers!

Shane they are some photo's

Sunrise in the West I ways always told sunrises in the East

Life has cycles Shane

Yet another Yank to your rescue in Dr Phil
Now I guess you have an old Station fellow who taught you to read to thank yet again.