Thanks: 0
Likes: 0
Needs Pictures: 0
Picture(s) thanks: 0
Results 16 to 30 of 52
Thread: stresed - not sleeping
-
2nd March 2009, 02:53 PM #16
How much coffee/coke/caffeine drinks are you drinking?
It doesn't happen to everybody & it changes as you get older.
I used to drink about 17 cups a day when I was in my early 20s without a problem
Now I can't drink more than 4 & none after 3pm without having problems getting to sleep before midnight.
Tea with caffeine in it also causes me problems now.
I had 3 cups yesterday arvo & I was still wide awake at 1am this morning.Cliff.
If you find a post of mine that is missing a pic that you'd like to see, let me know & I'll see if I can find a copy.
-
2nd March 2009 02:53 PM # ADSGoogle Adsense Advertisement
- Join Date
- Always
- Location
- Advertising world
- Age
- 2010
- Posts
- Many
-
2nd March 2009, 05:03 PM #17Hitch
You got to have a dream, if you don't have a dream, how you gonna have a dream come true?
Oscar Hammerstein ll
-
2nd March 2009, 05:26 PM #18GOLD MEMBER
- Join Date
- Aug 2007
- Location
- Brisbane
- Posts
- 1,156
The other day I described to my daughter how to find something in the garage by saying "It's right near my big saw". A few minutes later she came back to ask: "Do you mean the black one, the green one, or the blue one?".
-
2nd March 2009, 07:11 PM #19
G'day Carl,
There's lot's of good advice here. I can also add that some drops of lavender oil on a hankie by your pillow is also calming.
Are you also waking early at 2-3am? That is also a symptom of depression. I would recommend you also have a look at this ANU website and at least do some of the initial tests, that will give you a guide as to how your fair with stress and depression indicies. Probably a good idea to pop along to a professional health carer if it flags you at risk.
A word of caution should you wander along to see a GP and the subject of medication comes up. Ask them about potential side effects from the drug and very importantly, potential withdrawal side effects known for the drug. If they are unable, unwilling or don't know about these side effects, thank them and move on until you find a GP who is better informed about these medications.
These drugs are just like dogs. Some will be friendly and being with them will be a nice experience, some will be unfriendly and won't even let you in the yard (drugs with side effects). But some dogs will let you in the yard, but won't let you leave (drugs that do what they are supposed to do but when you try and get off them, there can be pretty awful side effects (this is not necessarily addiction)). People are different too, and you will possibly have a different reaction profile to the medications from the guy standing next to you. But certain trends become evident and certain names of drugs come up time and time again as having problems. Do a bit of research if you go down that path, forewarned is forearmed.
I am currently trying to get off a particular medication that was good while I was on it, but now I want out, it is giving me hell and has been for months. I really should have done my homework better in the first place, and with my background in medicinal chemistry, I am quite ashamed I did not.
Cheers
Michael
-
2nd March 2009, 08:04 PM #20
i dont drink coffee or cafine filled drinks nor am i stupd enough to smoke.
i will be from now on writing into all quotes/contracts that the work will be done as quoted and any changes made to the job after starting a fee will be charged to requote/change materials. i will be writing up a information sheet on teh diferent types of materials and the good bad points of each.
hopefully this will let me relax and not worrie about the customer changing there mind as i am coverd money wise. witch seams to be my biggest problem.
most people that i have troule with are ones that change there mind half way threw or want sompthign added after im finished.
also i will start to collect photos of compleated job with diferent materials.
www.carlweiss.com.au
Mobile Sawmilling & Logging Service
8" & 10" Lucas Mills, bobcat, 4wd tractor, 12 ton dozer, stihl saws.
-
2nd March 2009, 08:59 PM #21
Carl, lots of good advice on here and Burnsys' reply stands out for me.
When i was in the workforce (Boilermaker ) we wanted a deck built at the back of the house, 14m x 3m. I was working 6 days a week.
Got three people to come and quote, the one who won the job hands down was the one with the album. Pictures and sketches of what he could and would do.
No time frame was given or asked apart from he said when the timber gets delivered is when i start and when i finish is when its done.
I was more than happy with the job i got, yeh it cost a bit more but i never had a problem with it and he did what he'd said he would do.
Cheers FredCheers Fred
The difference between light and hard is that you can sleep with the light on.
http://www.redbubble.com/people/fredsmi ... t_creative"
Updated 26 April 2010
http://sites.google.com/site/pomfred/
-
3rd March 2009, 10:08 PM #22
I did not want to mention this, and although the symptoms do match I actually think that Weisy has an overactive mind. Too many projects and too little time. Lies in bed working out the next day and calculating the costs. That's why the pad and pencil might help. Weisy hasn't actually said he can't face getting up in the morning and can't see the point etc. Quite the opposite, I think he is on hyperdrive.
prozac
____________________________________________
Woodworkforums, cheaper than therapy...........
-
3rd March 2009, 11:11 PM #23
thats it prozac.
i lye there thinking about whats gotta happen tomorow what i gotta organise. things i wana do and if all is sorted tehn i come up with ides and plans for things im neva gunna make.
www.carlweiss.com.au
Mobile Sawmilling & Logging Service
8" & 10" Lucas Mills, bobcat, 4wd tractor, 12 ton dozer, stihl saws.
-
3rd March 2009, 11:36 PM #24
Sounds like depression/burnout
Carl,
I am 54 and have been on antidepressants for about 18 years! I was a Cabinet Maker Foreman working in the manufacture of Kitchens and the like.I was on wages. At the peak of my "caree" I was responsible for 12 blokes on the floor, ordering materials, liasing with clients for instalations, after sales call backs as well as showroom duty when needed.
The boss would "dump" you with a problem and leave you to sort it out then more often than not whinge about the way I would sort it out! Eight years I put up with it, not realising what it was doing to me.I can relate to you and your snappyness etc. I ended up going to the Docs who eventually sent me to a Psychicitrist and put me on the antidepressants. These did seem to work to a point but I have found out, in recent years, I am predisposed to depression and will be on the damn tablets for the rest of my life.
What the condition has done is taken away the enjoyment of things I used to love to do,To go and try to do these activities is such a pain that I don't do much at all. I have a shed full of tools and quite a lot of ideas of things I think I want to do, BUT I can't be bothered and that bothers me.
What I am basically saying is ....get professional help NOW to break the seemingly never ending dreery cycle.Even if it means getting on some tablets for say 6 months(it could take them that long to fix you up) and seehow you go.
Its an awful awful place to be! I know! All the other suggestions from the other contributors are good but don't dicount the medication too quickly. I am sure I would be in a screaming heap without them.
PS I have left the trade and not working full time because of the depression
All the very best to you Rod Chambers
-
4th March 2009, 12:07 AM #25
And I agree with Prozac. By all means see a GP and he/she may give sleep inducing pills which you will not want to "stay on" too long - they can be habit forming.
I'd steer clear of fast forwarding to the depressive state. I, too, have been on a handful of pills for breakfast for years and will live with them for the rest of my life. The mood altering pills are as many as six eaxh day if I want to take them.
My major mental discomfort is due to warlike trauma, and many things can set me dancing with the fairies - weisyboy, I'm not medically trained, but I am a sufferer, and I don't think you need this sort of treatment for the symptoms you've described.
soth
-
4th March 2009, 01:27 PM #26
Try the pad and pencil Carl before you go to bed. Get everything out of your head & onto the pad. Then tell yourself you don't have to worry about forgetting anything because it's on hard copy and will still be there in the morning. Now go and get some root vegies in for the cooler months.
prozac
____________________________________________
Woodworkforums, cheaper than therapy...........
-
4th March 2009, 05:50 PM #27
-
4th March 2009, 08:30 PM #28Skwair2rownd
- Join Date
- Nov 2007
- Location
- Dundowran Beach
- Age
- 76
- Posts
- 19,922
Not a good position to be in Carl but you have been given lots of very sound advice here.
You ought to consult a doctor and see if you can be referred to a reputable Psychologist if the Dr. thinks this is appropriate.
One thing I would counsel against is the taking of medication. I was on Stilnox for a while but was getting strange feelings of unease so I knocked off. Glad I did because it has since been reported to have some bad side effects such as causing sleepwalking.
Was also given some Tegratol, I think When in hospital for the bypass surgery.It was like trying to sleep in roomful of cicadas because it played up with my auditory processes.
-
4th March 2009, 08:37 PM #29
i dont do drugs. i dotn even like taking panadol.
i cant wait for each day to start i love my job and the fact that i decide if i wanna take a day off and do some woodwork or have a long lunch.
i just get stressed att iems when things aint going right. witch seams to be fairly often. most of teh time i worie for no reason but thats jsut the way i am.
i have got a notepad and will try that.
thanks for all teh advice.
www.carlweiss.com.au
Mobile Sawmilling & Logging Service
8" & 10" Lucas Mills, bobcat, 4wd tractor, 12 ton dozer, stihl saws.
-
4th March 2009, 10:05 PM #30
Carl, I thought you were describing me there for a second. I, too, love my job, but I know I care way too much about things and start to take on board the issues that pull me down and get me stressed. I keep reminding myself, not to take things personally, that it's ok for me to care about doing my job to the best of my ability, but it's not ok for me to care so much that I can't sleep or eat. I can only do what is physically/mentally possible for me and that, now, is good enough for me.
I, too, can get very stressed very quickly when things don't go right, but I've had to learn the hard way to roll with it a bit more than I do, to say it does matter, but not that much and to stop kicking myself for having the world's greatest hindsight
So how do you 'roll with it' and stop your self from 'over-caring', over-stressing etc? One step at a time, one second at a time, each instance as it happens.
Part of it is recognising and naming what I feel when a situation happens that causes me to stress or lose sleep or whatever. Identify the feelings, identify the something that causes them to happen in me and then one by one, consciously decide on whether I'm going to let it get to me or not and what I can do about it.
I've found this to be extremely helpful. Maybe it will for you....
Good luck!
WendyBox Challenge 2011 - Check out the amazing Boxes!
Twist One - Wooden Hinge/Latch/Catch/Handle
Twist Two - Found Object
Twist Three - Anything Goes
Similar Threads
-
Sleeping On A Daybed Does Not Make You Lazy...
By Corcorbear in forum WOODWORK PICSReplies: 9Last Post: 14th November 2004, 12:44 PM