I see a psychologist on an infrequent basis. For me it's a great way to offload and walk away. If I did the same thing to my partner (offload), I'd be separated.
Moving forward, my evolving discussions with him (my psychologist) has unraveled a diagnosis of being an introvert. I wouldn't say it's a dirty thing, unhealthy, or an actual diagnosis. Being an introvert is who I am. I find being around large groups, part of large groups and being part of social situations extremely draining. Being on my own to think and ultimately be creative is gold, being on my own is how I recharge. Being an introvert has also led to me being mis-diagnosed as suffering from depression.
It's kind of weird, some would say I'm 'out there', especially on these forums. But that's the beauty of these forums, I pick what I'm involved in and run a mile away from what I don't. Being an introvert is also the reason why I have difficulty being part of organised groups, such as mens sheds or membership based Woodworking organisations. It's also why I find being at work a chore. Saying this, I think that my aversion to social situations is also, in some way, my loss. My avoidance gets in the way of things that I'd like to learn by face to face contact. It'd be great to learn something without having to endure the trivial social talk.
Ultimately, I'm not sure of the purpose of this thread, I just wanted to discuss the notion of 'introversion'. Feel free to contribute, especially with my learning dilemma . I'd like to know if there is anyone out there who is like minded. It'd be great to know who you are :)